Hello Everyone,

Over the course of my life, I’ve embraced a number of different hobbies: Cricket, tennis, Badminton, listening Music, playing Guitar and just to name a few. But none of them have changed my life or brought me as much satisfaction as writing something and the other. Writing on Life, challenges in life, Love, Betrayed, Hurts, Romance, Death, Shayaris, Songs and so on. In almost too many ways to count, it has changed me and the way I live my life.

Few points why I have started with my blog (Even If I am Not a Writer):-

  • To become a better writer.
  • It helps to learn new things.
  • It create challenges in me.
  • To become a better thinker.
  • To live a more intentional life.
  • To develop an eye for meaningful things.
  • To live a healthier life habits.
  • To meet new people.
  • To inspire others.
  • To become more comfortable being known.
  • To serve as a personal journal.
  • To become more confident.
  • To find a platform to recommend.
  • To develop Positive thinking.

Hope you all are ready to read all my upcoming blogs on the regular basis or whenever I post the new blog. 

Regards,

Dikshit

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Unconditional Love!!!!

*IF A LIZARD CAN, WHY CAN’T WE?*

 This is a true story that happened in Japan.

 In order to renovate the house, a Japanese man breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.

 When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there, because a nail from outside had been hammered into one of its feet.

 He sees this, feels pity, & at the same time curious. When he checks the nail, it was nailed 5 years ago, when the house was built!!!

 What happened?

 The lizard had survived in such a position for 5 yrs!!!

 In a dark wall partition for 5 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling.

 Then he wondered how this lizard had survived for 5 years without moving a single inch, since its foot was impaled!

 So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, to see what it has been doing, and how it has been eating

 Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in it’s mouth.

 Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.

 For the lizard that was impaled by the nail, another lizard had been feeding it for the past 5 years.

 Imagine? It has been doing that untiringly for 5 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.

 Imagine what a small creature can do, that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind cannot do.

 Please, never abandon your loved ones. Don’t turn your back on people because they are in difficulty. Don’t see yourself as more intelligent or the best. You may be a bit luckier today but life is uncertain and can change things tomorrow….

 A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loved you against all odds..

 Before you say something just remember…

 *It takes a moment to break, but an entire lifetime to make …………*

 God created space within our fingers so that we can hold hands……

 Be there for somebody today.

 Love one another!!

 😊😊😊😊😊

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Life Is About Correcting Mistakes.

It’s a lovely story read it carefully……One of the important lesson about life that one should not miss…

Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Monica’s mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook with Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: ‘Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life.

When there’s something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it’s about next to the line.

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I’ve done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you’ve had.’

Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:

– 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

– 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica

– 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

– 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant

– 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

….. and so on…

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn’t talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world…. no more love…Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Monica talked to her Mother:-‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!’

Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can’t stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money & spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any record of such a poor marriage.’

Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears.

She left and went home.

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: ‘This is the day I notice how much I’ve loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.’

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.

“When you fall, in any way, Don’t see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped.

Life is about correcting mistakes.

Never Let You Go !!!!

I will let you ignore my texts. I will let you cancel plans. I will let you flirt with other people in front of me. I will let you treat me like shit and I will still come running back.

I will give you a million chances, even if you don’t deserve them. Even if I would be better off walking away from you. Even if you’re hurting me more than you’re uplifting me.

No matter how poorly you treat me, I will stick around. It’s not out of the goodness of my heart. It’s not because I believe in second chances.

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It’s because I don’t want you to leave. I want you to stay. I want you in my world for years to come.

When I want something, I don’t stop until I get it — or until I am 100% certain that there is no chance in hell I’m going to get it.

The worst thing you could ever do to me is send mixed signals, because as long as I think there is a glimmer of hope for us, then I’m not going anywhere. I cling on tightly. I refuse to admit defeat.

I will keep texting you until you ignore me three or four times in a row. Until you make it abundantly clear that you want nothing to do with me, that you have no desire to speak with me and wish I would go away.

I will keep flirting with you until I embarrass myself. Until you explicitly tell me nothing is ever going to happen between us. Until I can see the situation clearly and feel like a complete idiot for chasing after you for so long.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, even though I risk making a fool of myself, because I worry too much about the what ifs. What if you feel the same way but are afraid to admit it? What if you secretly like me as much as I like you? What if I miss out on the greatest relationship of my life by letting you leave? What if, what if, what if. 

I don’t want to do too little and lose you. I would rather try too hard and look too clingy.

I get attached easily because it’s rare for me to get along with other people. Usually, I have nothing to say. Usually, I fake laughs and smiles until I’m alone again and can breathe.

I’m not used to finding someone who I’m comfortable around, so if I actually connect with you on a deeper level, I don’t want you to leave. I want to preserve our relationship. I want to do everything possible to keep you in my life.

I don’t give up on people easily because I only let others into my life when I feel like they are worth it — and when they prove to me they are not, I have a hard time dealing with it. I have a difficult time letting go. 

Shayari

aakon me aasu,fir bi hotho pe muskan kyu he

kyu aduri zindagi jete he hum Aakhir har koi pareshan kyu he

jab judai hi he pyar ka matlab to fir pyar karnewala hairan kyu he

acha karam karna hai zindagi agar to Burai ka rasta itna aasan kyu he

agar jena hi he marne k liye to fir zindagi ek vardan kyu he

kabi na milegi jo usse hi lag jata hai dil, akhir dil itna naadan kyu he?

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 3

If I have ever loved you, then please know that I still do. You can never form such strong bonds with people and walk away from them without a glance back at the friendship that you had or the memories that you made together. If I have ever ghosted on you, then please know that it is not because I don’t care about you or what you’re going through. If I ever made you feel as if I no longer want to be involved in your life, then please know that that is not so. I am patiently waiting for your triumph over these hurdles in your life from afar and wishing you the best. The best that I could give wasn’t enough for you right now, and I know that you can make it through these tough times in which I can’t be your guide. You will make it out of this. You just can’t make it through them with me.

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 2

So how do we know that we are no longer being a good friend to them? When we realize that they are no longer benefiting from our kindness. When we realize that this friendship is no longer a two-way street. When this friendship starts to feel like a chore. When this friendship starts to make you feel guilty or unfit. When this friendship starts to make you hurt. Don’t get me wrong- friends can have disagreements. That’s not what I’m talking about here. I mean, when you are suffering because you’re doing all that you can for your friend, and you aren’t getting that same respect and effort back. It begins to make you wonder, “What more could I have done for them?” The answer is nothing. Sometimes your absolute best isn’t enough because that’s not what they need right now.

There is a fine line between being a good friend and being an enabler. It’s so hard to differentiate between the two that you don’t realize what’s happening until you’ve done it for so long that you begin to see that you’re the one being hurt by this. Walking away from a friendship that is no longer good for either of you is not giving up on that person. It is simply letting them go so that they can find what they need to realize in order to better themselves because everything that you’re giving just isn’t working. It’s harming them more than helping them, and that’s just something that you can’t let go on like this. It takes a strong person to realize that what you’re doing isn’t good for them, and you need to step back in order to help them grow on their own. It is a painful task, to say the least, but it is necessary in order for them to realize that they have a problem that even you can’t fix.

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 1

There is a harsh reality that none of us want to face but we have to understand, and that is sometimes being a good friend is not good enough to save someone that you love. Sometimes going to the ends of the world for someone will not keep them from returning to the thing that is killing them time and time again. Sometimes staying up night listening to them cry and trying your best to piece together their broken pieces isn’t enough to make them see how truly beautiful they are and how badly they deserve so much more out of life than the life that they have chosen for themselves. Sometimes always being there for them when they call isn’t what’s helping them, like we think it is.

Some people will never see themselves the way that you go through your own eyes. No matter how many times you tell them how intelligent and beautiful they are, they will never understand how deeply you truly mean it because they’re blinded by whatever it is that is keeping them in this cycle. Some people will never ever admit that you were right about the destruction that is their lives because they don’t want to admit that they are doing things wrong. Some people will hold on to their faults and bury them so deep inside themselves that they believe they don’t even exist and maybe never have. They will use you for all that you’re worth and never make a single attempt to do better for themselves because this is working out pretty well for them since they always have someone onto whom they can fall back.