Inspiring Love Story!!!

This is a true story that happened in Japan.

In order to renovate the house, a Japanese man breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.

When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there, because a nail from outside had been hammered into one of its feet.

He sees this, feels pity, & at the same time curious. When he checks the nail, it was nailed 5 years ago, when the house was built!!!

What happened?

The lizard had survived in such a position for 5 yrs!!!

In a dark wall partition for 5 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling.

Then he wondered how this lizard had survived for 5 years without moving a single inch, since its foot was impaled!

So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, to see what it has been doing, and how it has been eating

Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in it’s mouth.

Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.

For the lizard that was impaled by the nail, another lizard had been feeding it for the past 5 years.

Imagine? It has been doing that untiringly for 5 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.

Imagine what a small creature can do, that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind cannot do.

Please, never abandon your loved ones. Don’t turn your back on people because they are in difficulty. Don’t see yourself as more intelligent or the best. You may be a bit luckier today but life is uncertain and can change things tomorrow….

A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loved you against all odds..

Before you say something just remember…

*It takes a moment to break, but an entire lifetime to make …………*

God created space within our fingers so that we can hold hands……

Be there for somebody today.

Love one another!!

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Why I love Her?

She ask me “Why do I love her?”. And I looks at her, not like she’s crazy, but like I am wondering how she could be so beautifully unaware, unaware of the fact that I simply Love her the way she deserves to be loved. That my love is effortless because of the person that she is.

I love her because she’s there for me. Because when I feels like my life is slowly falling apart, somehow she’s picking up the pieces before it even happens. Because when I comes home from work and has had the worst day ever, she listens, and she doesn’t make me feel bad for hiding negativity, or for voicing it on her, she knows that I just needs someone to hear him. I Love her because she listens.

I Love her because she doesn’t try to change me. She doesn’t lay a list of things down that she wish I would do, or say, a list of qualities she wishes I personify. and I Love her because she seems to enjoy and support the person I continues to become.

I Love her because she doesn’t apologize for being herself. She doesn’t apologize for crying through an argument that doesn’t make sense. She doesn’t apologize for reacting, whether it’s excitement or anger or joy. She doesn’t apologize for her feelings. I Love her because she doesn’t say sorry for being the person that she is, having the feelings that she feels, or acting on the reactions those feelings cause.

I love her because she accepts the things about me that most people consider flaws. She sees my imperfections and she understands that’s what makes me human. She sees my imperfections and understands that she’s got them too. I Love her because she doesn’t expect our love to be perfect. She doesn’t expect me to be perfect either.

I love her because she doesn’t make me feel like a disappointment. I Love her because she is proud of me and everything that I do, because she doesn’t pressurize me with expectations that I needs to live up to, or benchmarks I needs to reach. I love her because she accepts me even when I fails. I Love her because she encourages me to keep going, to try again, and to not feel discouraged while doing so. I Love her because she motivates me to be strong.

So when she asks me why I Love her, but in her head she knows it’s because a small part of her can’t believe it and a larger part of her maybe doesn’t want to, because if she believes me when I says, “I love you,” if she believes all of the reasons I gave, it mean that love is something she deserves. It mean that love is real, because she’s finally found a person who can give Love to her.

By, Dikshit

Relations

In This Cruel World Of Relations,

I’ve Learned That..

Promises Are Not CONTRACTS.

Sweet Words Are Not GUARANTEES.

Big Hugs Are Not BONDS.

And That Nothing Is Permanent In This Life.

One Day Someone is Mine..

The Next Day that person is Gone..

Last Night Someone Was Sweet..

The Next Morning the same person is Insensitive..

Relations are not Always About Fairytales & Fantasies..

They are About Truth And RealitieS..

Never Let You Go !!!!

I will let you ignore my texts. I will let you cancel plans. I will let you flirt with other people in front of me. I will let you treat me like shit and I will still come running back.

I will give you a million chances, even if you don’t deserve them. Even if I would be better off walking away from you. Even if you’re hurting me more than you’re uplifting me.

No matter how poorly you treat me, I will stick around. It’s not out of the goodness of my heart. It’s not because I believe in second chances.

second-chances

It’s because I don’t want you to leave. I want you to stay. I want you in my world for years to come.

When I want something, I don’t stop until I get it — or until I am 100% certain that there is no chance in hell I’m going to get it.

The worst thing you could ever do to me is send mixed signals, because as long as I think there is a glimmer of hope for us, then I’m not going anywhere. I cling on tightly. I refuse to admit defeat.

I will keep texting you until you ignore me three or four times in a row. Until you make it abundantly clear that you want nothing to do with me, that you have no desire to speak with me and wish I would go away.

I will keep flirting with you until I embarrass myself. Until you explicitly tell me nothing is ever going to happen between us. Until I can see the situation clearly and feel like a complete idiot for chasing after you for so long.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, even though I risk making a fool of myself, because I worry too much about the what ifs. What if you feel the same way but are afraid to admit it? What if you secretly like me as much as I like you? What if I miss out on the greatest relationship of my life by letting you leave? What if, what if, what if. 

I don’t want to do too little and lose you. I would rather try too hard and look too clingy.

I get attached easily because it’s rare for me to get along with other people. Usually, I have nothing to say. Usually, I fake laughs and smiles until I’m alone again and can breathe.

I’m not used to finding someone who I’m comfortable around, so if I actually connect with you on a deeper level, I don’t want you to leave. I want to preserve our relationship. I want to do everything possible to keep you in my life.

I don’t give up on people easily because I only let others into my life when I feel like they are worth it — and when they prove to me they are not, I have a hard time dealing with it. I have a difficult time letting go. 

She Left U But She Still Love you!!!

Never question that she loved you. Because she did. But she knew that if she stayed with you, she would never be able to spread out her own wings. And she knew if she stayed, she would eventually resent you.

It’s not because she didn’t adore you. But it’s because she didn’t picture a future with you and she needed to be free. Free from your love. Free from the ties. Free from the ropes that bound her.

She needed to run from the life she knew that does not have any future. She needed to run not because she had to, but because she wanted to.

She didn’t do it out of hatred or out of spite. She didn’t do it out of selfishness. She did it, because she wanted to live the best life that she possibly could. And she couldn’t do that by staying with you.

Don’t think that it wasn’t hard for her. Don’t think that it wasn’t heartbreaking to her. Because her heart broke especially when she had to walk away from you.

But as hard as it was to leave you, she knew it was the best decision she could ever make. For herself. Not for you.

The time spend with you, she was comfortable. She was content. She was happy. But she needed much more than that. She needed your caring, your unconditional love, your commitment, your emotional touch and importantly your name after her.

She is the type of girl to run after what she wants in life which is exactly what she did with you. But she did for the sanity of her soul, for the pounding of her heart, for the oxygen in her lungs. To lift that weight off. The weight of her loves, her spaces and herself.

She needed to leave you because she needed to change herself. Not for you. Not for her parents not for her friends. But for her.

She had to leave you in order to be a happier person. Because with you, she was on the ground. But alone? But after leaving you she can finally fly. And she can soar without being afraid of falling.

By – Dikshit

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Parents!!!!

Sharing this beautiful poem that connects with each one of us – at some point in our life…!!!

देखते ही देखते जवान,*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं.. 

सुबह की सैर में,u कभी चक्कर खा जाते है,
सारे मौहल्ले को पता है, पर हमसे छुपाते है...
दिन प्रतिदिन अपनी, खुराक घटाते हैं,
और तबियत ठीक होने की, बात फ़ोन पे बताते है...
ढीली हो गए कपड़ों, को टाइट करवाते है,

देखते ही देखते जवान, *माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं...!
 
किसी के देहांत की खबर, सुन कर घबराते है,
और अपने परहेजों की, संख्या बढ़ाते है,
हमारे मोटापे पे, हिदायतों के ढेर लगाते है, 
"रोज की वर्जिश" के, फायदे गिनाते है,
‘तंदुरुस्ती हज़ार नियामत', हर दफे बताते है,

देखते ही देखते जवान, *माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं.. 
 
हर साल बड़े शौक से, अपने बैंक जाते है, 
अपने जिन्दा होने का, सबूत देकर हर्षाते है...
जरा सी बढी पेंशन पर, फूले नहीं समाते है, 
और FIXED DEPOSIT, रिन्ऊ करते जाते है...
खुद के लिए नहीं, हमारे लिए ही बचाते है,

देखते ही देखते जवान,*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं...

चीज़ें रख के अब, अक्सर भूल जाते है, 
फिर उन्हें ढूँढने में, सारा घर सर पे उठाते है...
और एक दूसरे को, बात बात में हड़काते है, 
पर एक दूजे से अलग, भी नहीं रह पाते है...
एक ही किस्से को, बार बार दोहराते है,

देखते ही देखते जवान,*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं...

चश्में से भी अब, ठीक से नहीं देख पाते है, 
बीमारी में दवा लेने में, नखरे दिखाते है...
एलोपैथी के बहुत सारे, साइड इफ़ेक्ट बताते है, 
और होमियोपैथी/आयुर्वेदिक की ही रट लगाते है..
ज़रूरी ऑपरेशन को भी, और आगे टलवाते है. 

देखते ही देखते जवान*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं.. 

उड़द की दाल अब, नहीं पचा पाते है, 
लौकी तुरई और धुली मूंगदाल, ही अधिकतर खाते है, 
दांतों में अटके खाने को, तिली से खुजलाते हैं, 
पर डेंटिस्ट के पास, जाने से कतराते हैं,
"काम चल तो रहा है", की ही धुन लगाते है..

देखते ही देखते जवान,*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते हैं.. 
 
हर त्यौहार पर हमारे, आने की बाट देखते है, 
अपने पुराने घर को, नई दुल्हन सा चमकाते है..
हमारी पसंदीदा चीजों के, ढेर लगाते है,
हर छोटी बड़ी फरमाईश, पूरी करने के लिए,
माँ रसोई और पापा बाजार, दौडे चले जाते है..
पोते-पोतियों से मिलने को, कितने आंसू टपकाते है.. 

देखते ही देखते जवान,*माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते है...
देखते ही देखते जवान, *माँ-बाप* बूढ़े हो जाते है...

Parents are precious in my life that words can't describe....

Dost

Is jahaan mein

MuhJe sabse jyada barosa hai toh tumpe dost…

Sabse jyada pyaar hai to wo hai tumse dost…

Sabse jyada pass hoon to sirf tujse dost….

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

Magar ae dost

Mujse kabhi juda na hona…

Mujse kabhi khafa na hona…

Mujse hamesha wafa karna

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

Chahe jitni bhi galti karoon…

Muhje maaf kar dena…

Na mujse door hona…

Kabhi na mera saath chodna

Tere bina mera jeevan

Jaise dil bina dhadkan

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

Tu meri shaans hai…

Mere sine ki dhadkan hai…

Mere nerve mein behta hua khoon hai…

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

Mere har sukh ka bhagidaar hai tu…

Mere har dukh ka sathidaar hai tu….

Meri khushi ka eshaas hai tu…

Mere ghum ka raaz hai tu….

Har tute hue rishtey ka sila hua tar hai tu…

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

Chahe suraj na chade…

Chahe chand na aaye…

Jabi mein pukaru…

subah ya raat…

Sirf dost tu chala aajaye…

Ae dost tu na hota toh mera kya hota

 

By, Dikshit