Unconditional Love!!!!

*IF A LIZARD CAN, WHY CAN’T WE?*

 This is a true story that happened in Japan.

 In order to renovate the house, a Japanese man breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.

 When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there, because a nail from outside had been hammered into one of its feet.

 He sees this, feels pity, & at the same time curious. When he checks the nail, it was nailed 5 years ago, when the house was built!!!

 What happened?

 The lizard had survived in such a position for 5 yrs!!!

 In a dark wall partition for 5 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling.

 Then he wondered how this lizard had survived for 5 years without moving a single inch, since its foot was impaled!

 So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, to see what it has been doing, and how it has been eating

 Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in it’s mouth.

 Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.

 For the lizard that was impaled by the nail, another lizard had been feeding it for the past 5 years.

 Imagine? It has been doing that untiringly for 5 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.

 Imagine what a small creature can do, that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind cannot do.

 Please, never abandon your loved ones. Don’t turn your back on people because they are in difficulty. Don’t see yourself as more intelligent or the best. You may be a bit luckier today but life is uncertain and can change things tomorrow….

 A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loved you against all odds..

 Before you say something just remember…

 *It takes a moment to break, but an entire lifetime to make …………*

 God created space within our fingers so that we can hold hands……

 Be there for somebody today.

 Love one another!!

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Life Is About Correcting Mistakes.

It’s a lovely story read it carefully……One of the important lesson about life that one should not miss…

Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Monica’s mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook with Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: ‘Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life.

When there’s something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it’s about next to the line.

The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I’ve done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you’ve had.’

Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.

This was what they did after certain time:

– 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage

– 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica

– 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

– 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant

– 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted

….. and so on…

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn’t talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world…. no more love…Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Monica talked to her Mother:-‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!’

Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can’t stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money & spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any record of such a poor marriage.’

Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account.

While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears.

She left and went home.

When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: ‘This is the day I notice how much I’ve loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.’

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.

Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.

“When you fall, in any way, Don’t see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped.

Life is about correcting mistakes.

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 3

If I have ever loved you, then please know that I still do. You can never form such strong bonds with people and walk away from them without a glance back at the friendship that you had or the memories that you made together. If I have ever ghosted on you, then please know that it is not because I don’t care about you or what you’re going through. If I ever made you feel as if I no longer want to be involved in your life, then please know that that is not so. I am patiently waiting for your triumph over these hurdles in your life from afar and wishing you the best. The best that I could give wasn’t enough for you right now, and I know that you can make it through these tough times in which I can’t be your guide. You will make it out of this. You just can’t make it through them with me.

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 2

So how do we know that we are no longer being a good friend to them? When we realize that they are no longer benefiting from our kindness. When we realize that this friendship is no longer a two-way street. When this friendship starts to feel like a chore. When this friendship starts to make you feel guilty or unfit. When this friendship starts to make you hurt. Don’t get me wrong- friends can have disagreements. That’s not what I’m talking about here. I mean, when you are suffering because you’re doing all that you can for your friend, and you aren’t getting that same respect and effort back. It begins to make you wonder, “What more could I have done for them?” The answer is nothing. Sometimes your absolute best isn’t enough because that’s not what they need right now.

There is a fine line between being a good friend and being an enabler. It’s so hard to differentiate between the two that you don’t realize what’s happening until you’ve done it for so long that you begin to see that you’re the one being hurt by this. Walking away from a friendship that is no longer good for either of you is not giving up on that person. It is simply letting them go so that they can find what they need to realize in order to better themselves because everything that you’re giving just isn’t working. It’s harming them more than helping them, and that’s just something that you can’t let go on like this. It takes a strong person to realize that what you’re doing isn’t good for them, and you need to step back in order to help them grow on their own. It is a painful task, to say the least, but it is necessary in order for them to realize that they have a problem that even you can’t fix.

Being A Good Friend Is Not Enough To Fix Someone # Part 1

There is a harsh reality that none of us want to face but we have to understand, and that is sometimes being a good friend is not good enough to save someone that you love. Sometimes going to the ends of the world for someone will not keep them from returning to the thing that is killing them time and time again. Sometimes staying up night listening to them cry and trying your best to piece together their broken pieces isn’t enough to make them see how truly beautiful they are and how badly they deserve so much more out of life than the life that they have chosen for themselves. Sometimes always being there for them when they call isn’t what’s helping them, like we think it is.

Some people will never see themselves the way that you go through your own eyes. No matter how many times you tell them how intelligent and beautiful they are, they will never understand how deeply you truly mean it because they’re blinded by whatever it is that is keeping them in this cycle. Some people will never ever admit that you were right about the destruction that is their lives because they don’t want to admit that they are doing things wrong. Some people will hold on to their faults and bury them so deep inside themselves that they believe they don’t even exist and maybe never have. They will use you for all that you’re worth and never make a single attempt to do better for themselves because this is working out pretty well for them since they always have someone onto whom they can fall back.

 

Don’t Let Her Go If U Really Love Her!!!

If you love her, let her go.’ Why is that a saying? Why is that something we quote, hang on our walls, save to our Pinterest boards?

I’m going to have to push back  against the thought that someone who truly loves you will let you go. See, that thinking is foolish.

If you really love someone, if your heart is caught up and wrapped around a person, why on earth would you let them go? Why on earth would you say goodbye and watch from a distance, as they fall into the arms of someone else?

Maybe the whole idea is that true love comes back, and if you set it free, it returns. I do believe in the truth of that statement, in the sense that people who are meant to be together will find a way to each other. But does that mean I want someone who truly loves me to part ways with me, to move on? Does that mean I want the man who has mad feelings for me to simply pretend he doesn’t, in hopes that one day we’ll fall back into one another’s arms?

Absolutely not. That makes no sense.

When you love someone, you don’t let them go. You tell them, you pursue them, you care for them.

When you love someone, you don’t simply walk when times get tough. You don’t push them away for fear of getting too close or being broken. You don’t doubt yourself and your relationship, and therefore tell them to find what they’re looking for in someone else.

You don’t leave, hoping that one day you’ll find them again. Because love doesn’t work like that.

What if the person you let go isn’t looking for anyone else, but now has to, because they have no other choice? What if you tell them to go, and they eventually move on, and suddenly neither of you is truly happy? Or what if they find happiness? Then what?

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What if you lose out on a beautiful relationship, simply because you were too scared to take a chance?

If you love someone, tell them—that’s easy, that’s something we can all do. But what about pursuing someone you love, even when times are tough? Even when life hasn’t been easy? Even when you’ve fought and hurt one another so deeply? What then?

Do you have the courage to love? Or are you too quick to let them go, to fall into the temporary mentality of this world?

If you love her, you don’t leave her. It’s as simple as that.

It’s working on your problems, together. It’s fighting through the crap and drama and pain to find what first brought you together, and making that come alive again. It’s believing that your love is stronger, that your connection is real, that you don’t have to ‘see if you were meant to be’ by parting ways until you fall back into each other again—instead, you can work on your relationship right now.

Loving is not synonymous with leaving or letting go.

Love is present, is challenge, is learning, is finding a way to make it work. Love is not watching the woman you love slip out of your grasp—it’s hanging on and fighting against this world, hand-in-hand.

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By, Dikshit

Happy National IceCream Day

10 facts you probably didn’t know about ICE CREAM

Yesterday, people have celebrated one of the most anticipated holidays in the history — National Ice cream Day. In 1984, Former President Ronald Reagan declared July as National Ice cream month and the third Sunday of it as the National Ice Cream Day. It is said that the late president recognized the popular dessert as a wholesome and nutritious food that is enjoyed by over 90% of the people in the United States. It was only proclaimed in the US but due to the deliciousness and popularity of ice cream, some countries also joined in the celebration including us, in Philippines.

So, you love ice cream but how depth is your knowledge about it?

Let me share these facts that you probably didn’t know about this all-time favorite dessert.

Did you know?

  • It was the Chinese who created the first concept of ice cream. It is believed that ice cream were originated on the idea of a simple dish of rice mixed with milk that was frozen due to being packed with snow. They are also said to be the men behind the invention of the first ice cream machine.
  • The first introduction of ice cream in America appeared in 1744. It was then followed by its first advertisement which appeared in New York Gazette back in 1777.
  • It was in 1851 when the first ice cream plant is opened. A milk dealer named Jacob Fussell became a successful businessman when he built an ice cream factory in Pennsylvania.
  • The tallest ice cream cone was achieved by Mirco Della Vecchia and Andrea Andrighetti. The cone is too tall having the measurement of 2.81m (9 ft 2.63 in) in height. The tallest cone got it to the Guinness World Record and is still unbeaten. By the way, the traditional waffle cone that we got used to made its debut back in 1904 at the World’s Fair in St. Louis, Missouri.
  • In celebration for WWII victory, Americans ate more than 20 quarts of ice cream per person.
  • Ice cream was once known as ‘cream ice’. It was King Charles I of England who was one of those people who once called ice cream as cream ice.
  • New Zealand is the biggest consumers of ice cream in the world ahead of Australia and the USA.
  • It takes 3 gallons of milk to make 1 gallon of ice cream.
  • “Brain freeze” occurs only when ice cream touches the roof of your mouth
  • According to several sources, it takes about 50 licks to consume a single scoop of ice cream.

“Life is like an ice cream. Enjoy it before it melts.”

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I Scream, u Scream, V all scream for ICE CREAMs